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Praying for those who can’t pray for themselves

I am now ending my third week on sabbatical. So far, it’s going way too quickly! In addition to working on research for my doctoral thesis, I’m using this time to have more thorough prayer time. My prayer and devotional life was getting pretty dry. It was more perfunctory than relational; more of an obligation than life-giving.

This morning, the devotion from Bible.com was from Romans 8:26, and, as part of my devotion, I thought I would write what I was thinking and doing.

Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness; for we do not know how to pray as we ought, but that very Spirit intercedes with sighs too deep for words.

Romans 8:26 [NRSV]

As I lingered with these words, names and stories of people at church and through my personal life came flooding over me – people who recently lost loved ones, people struggling in their marriages, people preparing for marriage, people who are going through significant life transitions. And it occurred to me that the ELCA tag line “God’s work. Our hands.” doesn’t just apply to service and advocacy, but to prayer. If the Holy Spirit intercedes for people who can’t pray, don’t know how to pray, can’t find the words, or are so burdened by grief or life situations that seem insurmountable, then so can I.

Years ago, there was a woman named Bev who had a stroke and could no longer speak. When I sat with her in her small apartment, she would try to speak, but couldn’t. She would get so frustrated and grab a piece of paper to try to write what she wanted to say, but the words were illegible. I held her hand and told her that I know she has a lot to say and I can’t hear or understand, but the Holy Spirit does. In her apartment that afternoon, the Holy Spirit, Bev, and I prayed … the Holy Spirit hearing her groans and knowing exactly what they meant.

Pray today for others who may be groaning or sighing. Pray for those who are ill. Pray for those who are surrounded by people, yet feel alone or forgotten. Pray for our children – it can be hard to be a kid growing up with all of the advantages they have, yet with the strong presence of bullying and pressure to be the best of the best at everything all of the time (this is whether or not you have children of your own – the children of this community are our children).

Take time to sit with the Spirit and let the Spirit call to mind people for your prayers. Then, do God’s work with your prayers.

God bless you today as you join the Holy Spirit in interceding for others.

Pastor Jeff



2 responses to “Praying for those who can’t pray for themselves”

  1. Lucille Comignani Avatar
    Lucille Comignani

    I’m happy to hear that your Sabbatical is going so well…

    So glad you felt compelled to address the significance of prayer in people’s lives… I needed a jump-start ( often I don’t read your blogs until late….but this time was different, I didn’t just gloss over……God sticking His Finger in My Business!!!)

    Prayer in solitude happens when I least expect it, not as I have planned, which is in the morning when I think I should)…but rather it happens when I’m in the shower, or driving or at a time when I think I’m not devoting full time and attention to prayer, but rather somewhat divided between what I am doing physically and offering prayer of concern…. (I should mention that this does not occur with .any regularity or for that matter that often and though I mean to set aside a formal time (I.e. the mornings ) to offer prayer, often I get bombarded by the events of the day) And I am embarrassed to say, that my prayers are mostly requests for God’s assistance and though I do offer Thanks, just not as often as I feel I should!…..

    sorry about rambling on…
    Wishing you continued smoothness in reaching you goals during this time!
    Lucille

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  2. Thanks for reading and commenting, Lucille. I think it’s a great thing to pray whenever you feel the urge – praying while driving is a good thing as long as you don’t pray with your eyes closed 🙂

    The sermon I heard this morning was very good and brought together both our relationship with God and our relationship with our spouses. He said that, just like we need intentional time with our spouses, we need intentional time with God. Picking up the phone and calling in the middle of the day just because is great, but, if the whole relationship was that, there really wouldn’t be much of a marriage. We need those “date nights” and other time just to be together.

    So, like you, I’ll continue to pray in the car and while I’m going about my day, but I felt the need to have some time where I was just focusing on God.

    God bless you and thanks for “rambling on”.

    PJ

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